It is only my opinion, but if a person cannot exist and enjoy a COMMUNITY pool without expecting others to accommodate their preference of behavior, perhaps they should have their own pool installed at home. I am finding that as people age their filters of respect disappear and they develop an "entitlement" personality. The most ridiculous personality trait I have ever experienced. There are boring retirement communities everywhere, so possibly they could move to one of those? Oh, but then, they couldn't "complain & impose their entitlement" on others. *lol* Humans are so very strange. Just ask the aliens that have decided to leave us alone knowing our planet will disintegrate without their help. *lol* Interesting topic indeed. Chill out. Go with the flow. You will be a much better human that way.