I know you have enough on your plate, but browse this info on VA benefits for assisted living when you get a chance. You probably need to get the ball rolling, it may take awhile for the paperwork to get processed. Best wishes, bk
https://iris.va.gov/scripts/iris.cfg...p?p_faqid=1088
http://www.alfa.org/images/alfa/Toolkits/VAToolkit.pdf