Thanks so much for your response. Could you explain what the Lifestyle Visit is?
I'm staying at a friend's house, but they won't be there (and don't live there permanently) so I'm on my own. From reading the posts I'm thinking TV might be all I can handle this trip and that's fine - I'm not in a rush, but I want to be ready to move shortly after I retire.
TV sounds great, but, as a recent widow, the decision is a little overwhelming and certainly more difficult than if my husband was with me. One of the things I need is the opportunity to meet people easily. I golf, but it's not the main focus of my life - then again maybe if I got better it could be

, so a wide range of activities is important.
I'm just starting my search so I'm open to suggestions - especially on other places to look at.