[redwitch]

I'm the "baby" in my mah-jongg group. My bridge group ranges from mid-30s to 90. I'm the only non-widow in my ladies group. I have my own business and it keeps me pretty busy (fortunately, I can make my own schedule). I don't have the funds to participate in a lot of the trips, dinners, etc. Even so, I'm accepted by all and they really don't care that I don't quite "fit." You'll find that here it is more a matter of interests than it is a matter of age. Heck, my friends even accept the fact that I'm a diehard liberal (a true rarety in TV!). The people here are truly that friendly and giving of themselves.

Also remember that you don't have to insulate yourselves to TV. Through the school, you'll meet others in their 40s; ditto through the hospital. So, you'll be able to pick and choose your friends and amount of time you want to spend in your activities.

So. c'mon down and enjoy the scenery, the people, the activities and being with your mother while you can. She's a lucky woman and so are you guys to be able to be there for her.