I agree that it is hard to watch the third little eglet get "ignored". But that is just our perception. Every day someone expresses a concern to the moderators that the third baby is starving or dead. And the moderators assure us that all babies are well fed and cared for. Apparently this mom has already mothered 13 eaglets successfully and she knows what she is doing.
And Redwitch is right, we should all take lessons from the eagles. Both parents are very devoted, and all eaglets are doing fine.
I think this site is the BEST! I can't start my day without checking on the eagles.