[chachacha]

for the grace of God, may go and most likely WILL go unhappily someday many of the couples who think singles are whining about this issue. many have lost spouses since moving here and never realized how these rules would impact their recovery and reintegration into society. i must admit i do not give a fig about golf and am not personally well informed about golf issues and costs. i am sure the very imaginative minds of those who created our little paradise here can find a way to resolve this issue without threatening anyone's tee time. meanwhile i may have really enjoyed a game of water volleyball with my significant other last winter before he died, if WE had been allowed in the pool! please try to see everyone's viewpoint.