Milky Way, I would suggest you attend a session of the Good Golf School. They have a lot of good information about golfing in The Villages. If you golf in The Villages it should be a requirement that you attend this school.
Here's the link with info:
http://www.districtgov.org/PdfView/P...PdfUpload/Good Golf School 2010.pdf'&ql=standard
Also ask your neighbors and anyone else you strike up a friendship with about getting together for golf. Other than the Ladies Days described above, there are no "golf leagues" as we knew them up north here in The Villages.
Good luck!