I think are a lot of factors of whether a renter is accepted -- the type of home rented (CYVs are pretty enclosed and neighbors are less inclined to get to know you; patios have lots of renters and, thus, are pretty much ignored by the residents); how long you are staying (the longer you plan to rent, the more likely the neighbors will talk to you); how friendly you are.
I know of one instance where the renters were extremely unfriendly -- even saying hello seemed to be an effort for them. The neighbors couldn't wait for them to leave. The next couple that rented not only said hello, but held a small Christmas party, helped neighbors as needed, always smiled and were friendly. They're coming back next year and the neighbors can't wait for their return.
It really does seem that what you get from TV is up to you. If you choose to just stay in your house, do your own thing and rarely mingle with the neighbors, you'll be excluded whether you're a renter, a snowbird or a frog. If you smile, say hello, offer to help your neighbor as appropriate, the odds are you will be included and accepted.
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