Wow.
Thanks for all the great responses, and for Villager99 for providing the web-site.
I really didn't know what to expect. I don't usually make such an issue out of sexual orientation, but I did kinda want to get a sense of what it might be like in such a tight knit community, and this forum was a way to to it anonymously.
And I suppose a visit is in order. Need to start making plans.
Will keep you posted.