Dear VT,
We planted our St. Joseph in the front yard, upside down, facing the road. Then we proceeded with the prayers that are to be said. We were not very optimistic about selling, so were pleasantly surprised when it happened. It will happen for you too! So now we are full time Villagers and waiting for our closing in a week so we can get into our new designer in Duval.
Just killing time now till next week, so would be happy to go get some Buttonwood sand/dirt and send it to you. PM me if you wish me to do that.
Good luck. SB