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Old 09-09-2010, 09:15 AM
ssmith ssmith is offline
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Default I don't qualify..

since we have not moved there yet; but we have moved several times.

What you are going through is important to feel. You must grieve the loss of what was...(oh yes, you can keep up relationships; but it will not be like it was)...as I was saying...you must grieve the loss in order to be open to the new. It would truely be sad to be leaving and not miss anything.

Also remember, it took time to feel that close to people and it will take time to be that close again to new people...so be patient.

I am watching this thread with interest as I am sure many will have good advise for you.