[graciegirl]

Originally Posted by redwitch

I don't think it has been deliberate attempts to marginalize -- more of it can't be true because I LOVE that place/person. It really is hard to believe that someone has had a bad experience when you have had nothing but good experiences at the same place. So, I do understand those who expressed doubt.

As to the doubts on the vandalism, there is a reason for it -- there have been posters who would post once about something negative and never post again. After some checking, it would was found out these posters were lying or exaggerating the incident. That makes it hard when a newbie posts about a negative experience. We can't help but wonder if it really occurred or is simply an attempt to make TV appear in a negative light.

Also, there are some who truly believe this is a paradise and find it difficult to believe that anything bad can happen here. They simply don't want their bubble burst.

Personally, I take most of what I see on the internet, hear on television or read in a newspaper with a large grain of salt. Whether we like it or not, everyone has some sort of an agenda, whether benign or malignant. I try to get the facts from several sources. So, if one person complains about a restaurant or a contractor, I'll consider the source (do I know that person, do I respect their opinion) and I'll consider my own personal experiences. However, if more than one makes similar complaints in a venue I basically trust, then I'll probably try to steer clear of that person or business.

Well said Red. I agree. I was trying to say that but you are much more articulate.