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Originally Posted by Pturner
Sometimes, no one wants to be the first to speak up and order an appetizer, especially if they think they might be the only one. So, if you want an appetizer, instead of saying, "is anybody going to order an appetizer," maybe try, "Should we order a few appetizers for the table?" People in social situations, like to be agreeable, so someone is likely to accent and you can take it from there.
p.s., Bang Bang Shrimp. Never had it. But now that some people raved, I must try it.  |
This is probably the best advice so far. Maybe I could say, "I would like to treat the table to some appetizers, what shall we order." Or, "Have you ever tried the Bang Bang Shrimp? I'd like to treat the table to some appetizers, I'll order a few for us."
In regard to being prepared to pick up the check for the table all the time, I believe that is a social blunder.