Originally Posted by Pturner
Sometimes, no one wants to be the first to speak up and order an appetizer, especially if they think they might be the only one. So, if you want an appetizer, instead of saying, "is anybody going to order an appetizer," maybe try, "Should we order a few appetizers for the table?" People in social situations, like to be agreeable, so someone is likely to accent and you can take it from there.
I agree with TH on this one. Human nature being what it is, people might not want to be the first to say they want an appetizer but will automatically start eating when it is presented. IMHO
The advice by Pturner is excellent. I would probably share if the portion was hugh. If it was a main course selection, I would have it delivered when the other meals arrived.
Order clam chowder with several straws is a good way to share.
A friend of mine told me he wins every argument with his wife and always has the last word, "YES DEAR".
