Some people might think this is grimm but, we had a bad accident a few years ago and that kind of puts things into prospective whether you're ready for it or not! Anyway, we've had our burial plots for years but after our accident we had our headstones made up and put in place. We each have our birthdate filled in and our 'expiration' date will be put in later, much later I hope! We have a single stone with wedding rings and our wedding date in the middle. We know our son has a hard time with things like this, he about died when we had our accident, so we had this done so there would be one less thing for him to do later.
Besides, how many people get to see their own headstone, much less pick it out??