My concern here:
In my six years here I haven't met any one who is a grouch. I've met only one or two people who've ever had an "issue" with a neighbor or a neighborhood. Yet this thread seems, occasionally, to assume that confrontations may be inevitable.
For that, I am thoroughly dismayed! I came here anticipating Good Will at all times and I have seen it. Even the possibility of engendering Bad Will gives me Heartburn something fierce!
SWR