Gail - We were in a similar, but different, situation. We decided to move to TV, and my widowed mom was 84 and in CA. Our decision to bring her to TV was aided by my abusive sibling who was always after her for money. She left friends in CA and there was a period where she was homesick. She has made new friends here and a lot of her friends in CA have moved or passed away. We live close enough to provide her assistance when needed.
Age doesn't seem to be a factor in friendships here. One can join a group or activity and many different age groups are present and involved. If your mom can travel, you may want to visit and let her see what is available here.
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