Everyone needs to plan there life as a priority for what they want. We all need to care for our loved ones, make sure that we have planned for their future, but we also need to enjoy our own life. If I knew my time was limited, and I am sure it is to some extent, I would and have done everything possible to make sure she is secure, has the necessary resources, and is set up to enjoy her life. I would want her to be in a place that had the things she wants and needs to enjoy her time without me. I want to be happy and enjoy life with her as long as possible, but when I go before her, which every statistic says I will, I want her to forget about me and do what she has to do to be happy going forward.
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Life is to short to drink cheap wine.
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