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04-16-2011, 09:02 PM
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Originally Posted by l2ridehd
Everyone needs to plan there life as a priority for what they want. We all need to care for our loved ones, make sure that we have planned for their future, but we also need to enjoy our own life. If I knew my time was limited, and I am sure it is to some extent, I would and have done everything possible to make sure she is secure, has the necessary resources, and is set up to enjoy her life. I would want her to be in a place that had the things she wants and needs to enjoy her time without me. I want to be happy and enjoy life with her as long as possible, but when I go before her, which every statistic says I will, I want her to forget about me and do what she has to do to be happy going forward.
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l2ridehd, you are right about how my husband should feel and he really does care about what is best for me. My husband probably thinks he is looking out for my best interest. Thats why he doesn't want me to move away, he knows my son would be right there if I needed him. No one knows when and who is going to go first. I love him enough to make sure his last day's are also the right thing for him. He almost died last June, I can't think of what I want, I care enough to do what is right for him at this time.
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