and i do not mean the underwear...i mean it depends on a lot of things...there are many "cubs" on the dating sites (for those of you blissfully ignorant, happily married posters) who look for older ladies probably with ideas of living in our bubble and freeloading off of a "cougar"...in that case she is the victim! but of course even in the villages there are predator cougars and they can find a younger guy if they so choose, under ninety!
