[billmar]

wouldn't feel comfortable eating another couples appetizer after declining to order one myself. Don't think you have an obligation to offer others your appetizer, and don't think people expect you too, either. What bothers me though is when two couples go out and each orders an appetizer, but they both get put on your bill. The other couple doesn't say anything or maybe just doesn't notice it. Sometimes it's uncomfortable to say anything
I would, but hubby not so much, he's nicer.