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Old 07-12-2011, 05:36 AM
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Originally Posted by Trish Crocker View Post
hmmm..let's see...84,000 people in the Villages...1 won't speak...really not seeing a problem there! As everyone has said, I would try to engage him in conversation, possibly starting with "it seems that I have offended you somehow"...if he doesn't respond it's his loss, he's probably a very unhappy person. I would definitely not consider moving, there are too many other really great people.
Or like some folks that I know well, he didn't put his "hearers" in this morning after his shower. AND some people are PAINFULLY shy. Most people become more comfortable in the light of smiling faces and cheerful conversation.

I didn't wait to see if my neighbors came to me when we moved into Hadley three years ago, I went around a couple days after we moved into new house and introduced myself and invited them to coffee. I asked them to bring their own cup since we hadn't outfitted ourselves for company yet. Went to Publix and bought several of their lovely sweet rolls and some paper plates and forks...and enjoyed meeting all these nice people who soon became our friends and hopefully will continue to be our friends in our new home being built right now.

I hope that you find the secret to unlocking Mr. and Mrs. "Staring's" smiles. I think the BEST thing about TV is the people who have traveled down life's highway for at least five decades and have so many adventures to share.

I welcome YOU and hope that you find happiness, and peace, and health here in Lower Paradise for a thousand years.

Hugs,
Gracie
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