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Originally Posted by ssmith
Just a quick thought, you mentioned that there are many cliques at events there in TV. Is that unusual. I guess what I mean is that I have moved often and find it takes some time to break into the crowd of regulars....not that they exclude on purpose but just don't go over board to include newbes. Is that the case there? Seems you have persevered. Also wonder if this is more prevalent if you live in a very long established neighborhood?
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Hi SSmith,
My sense is that it is rare here. The other side of the story needs telling:
Shortly after we purchased in an established neighborhood (Springdale), we visited the neighborhood pool. Everyone we spoke to there was welcoming, telling us about clubs we might enjoy, etc. One couple mentioned that they were dining that evening at one of their favorite restaurants and invited us to join them!
Just yesterday I took a water aerobics class for the first time. It was crowded and hard to see the instructor. A woman who had been going to this class for four years helped show me how to do certain things if I struggled. She was so nice and assured me that she was new once too. I didn't own some optional equipment and another women told me she never uses hers anymore, so could have it. After the class, a few more women introduced themselves and welcomed me. It was amazing. I cannot wait until I can pay it forward!
And then there is the incomparable KathieI. When we first moved here she organized 2 meet and greet lunches for me. I met and have continued to meet the nicest people here.
Perhaps there are cliques here, but I haven't found them yet. We're seniors for crying out loud. Cliques are for kids. Oh wait... that was Tricks.
