Welcome back Gracie!!
Now we can stop fasting and get some sleep....
As to the Terms of Service, I'm sure the Administration is still getting their "sea legs" so to speak.
One of the things they might do is to post the Terms of Service above the main forum page, not exactly a sticky, but like a first section. Then folks can refer to it, etc.
It is also good to understand that the health of this forum is directly related to how diligent the regular posters are using the "report feature". No Moderator can read every thread, every post 24/7.....so they rely on good posters reporting any problem posts.
Consider this like a neighborhood watch....the report feature is like 911, keeping our "online community" safe, healthy, and lawful.
I wrote more on this in the "Where's Gracie?" thread, but it was a bit off topic, and so I do not think it got read very much.
Respectfully,
Frank