Great post
I have met several women who were (sadly) widowed soon after moving to TV, and they all said they were glad they decided to stay - so much more to do here, and so much more an inclusive society. Didn't lose their "couple friends" as it is so easy to do. Of course, I'm not meeting the ones who chose to move back.
Part of it, I think, is not having to drive places alone at night. Or if you do, it's to a nearby rec center or square. Either they are so busy during the day they are happy to be home at night, or it is just easy to get out and about by golf cart, or do neighborhood things and walk! Plus, winter weather keeps us more glued to the couch as we age.
My oldest daughter has 4 sets of parents/in-laws (2 divorced parents). She has commented on more than 1 occasion that we are the only ones who seem to have "a life" with social activities, interest group activities, etc. We are the only ones who live in a retirement community.
As a snowbird, I have to say it takes more of an effort to do things away from TV, although at this point in our lives, we are enjoying both. If I had to choose 1 place, it would be TV.
It is great to see adult children supporting their parents' decision to move south and have a life!
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