My personal advice?
Listen to Pooh!
For many, moving away from family is hard, hard, hard! For others, it is good, good, good!
My daughters "pushed" me to move to TV. Having no grandchildren to tug at my heart, I made what turned out to be the very, very best move ever!
My St. Louis-based daughter told me at some point early in my decision-period, "You don't want to put up with the snow and cold in the winter any more than I do; so, I'll come to The Villages to see you when it's bad here!"
That's worked very well, for both of us!
SWR
