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Originally Posted by graciegirl
Weren't taught to say things like that. In Ohio, our moms would have smacked us for talking out like that, and so people who are raised like that are often pushed around here and it makes me mad. BUT, I would feel guilty and wrong speaking up.
I don't like people to win through intimidation like the space savers usually do.
I wish my mom was here to see this kind of thing. She might have changed her mind.
I did not mean to say you are wrong Jen, it just is that we were all raised with different sets of expectation and some of them are regional.
I think basically people are the same no matter where they come from.
But that kind of pushiness makes me want to bite when they think they can save a place. I left an art class at Colony because of that kind of behavior.
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You read me wrong!!! I haven't had the instance to actually say that...but THAT would have been my 1st thought inclination!!! I was raised in the upper midwest and was taught to be polite etc. What is being shared here though is that folks come into a class and try to be pushy....telling another "they" took the spot of the 2nd party and that is wrong in my thinking. Would you just say "sorry..and move aside? Maybe, but if you were there first I'd think the spot you were in would be yours!" Just mho!!!