I agree with everything you have said, Doodlegirl... but I still maintain that no matter what the circumstance, an individual still makes a choice to be civil, polite or otherwise.
People behave the way they do because that's what they WANT to do, be or say, even if it is in the moment. The reasons don't really matter.
And if someone acts 'out of character' (for whatever reason) and regrets it, they usually make amends and guard their impulses in the future.
Those who don't..... don't WANT to. I have no sympathy for them. Pity maybe, but no sympathy.
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