1) What harm does gay marriage do to you? Don't give me a line about the "sanctity of marriage" because it was legal for my uncle to marry 6 times to 4 different women - to say nothing of incidents like the Spear's weekend not-a-marriage.

2) The Constitution requires the states to respect each other's laws. That means, while Alabama can have laws that do not sanction gay marriages in their state, they DO have to recognize a marriage legally performed in another state.

I think this will end up becoming a challenge to the Constitutionality of the DoMA.

Mind you - I'm not saying that, for instance, the Catholic Church should be forced to perform these ceremonies or anything like that.