I remember when my parents moved to Naples, FL. At the time, I was very upset because I had a one year old son and I wanted him to have the life I had. My grandparents lived 4 houses down from us and were very active in our lives. My mother said the same things others had posted. It was "their time," they had worked hard their entire lives, yada, yada, yada. It wasn't long before I realized that we were able to enjoy the vacations to Florida at Christmas and spring break, that my parents were active in my children's lives. My children and I talked regurlarly on the phone with my parents. They did come home for all the important events (like they promised).
Soooo, for all of you who are getting the "guilt trip" from your kids and grandkids, it does work out. We were busy with our lives and did not really have the time for my parents. My parents were and (my dad) is still active. My mother has passed away since their move and was very happy with her lifestyle in Florida. I'm glad she was able to experience that. We were able to keep in touch via the phone. However, today we have cell phones, skype, texting, emails, etc. It is easier to stay in touch than ever before.
Please go and enjoy your lives. Your kids will be fine and happy for you!
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