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Old 12-01-2011, 02:22 PM
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Let me clarify: I go back to the original thought that being OPENLY GAY. To me that means being obvious or flamboyant about being gay. I have serviced with gays in the military and had no problem with that. I had a gay female E6 work for me in Germany that I would lead or follow into combat, but she was not openly gay. For a man to be gay in the military is one thing, but if I see him in the club after work wearing a dress and makeup, it would bother me in formation the next morning. Sorry, but I am mid west farm boy and gay was just not done OPENLY. I do not wish to see anyone kissing and fondling each other at the square in the evening, but if it is two women or two men, it would bother me even more. Keep your sexuality private and I got your back.
I don't think the military would be a vocation of chose for most of the gay men you describe. And I do agree that public displays of affection are just uncomfortable for everyone. I don't even like to see heterosexual couples PDA beyond a hug or kiss. Certain things are private and no one else wants to see it.