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to TOTV. I see this is your first post.

I wouldn't force your wife into anything but you might want to consider taking a vacaton to TV. I heard of scenarios where the party who had no intention of moving got the bug and the one who suggested the trip wasn't as thrilled about moving into something that fast.

I'm sure other members can tell you about the difficulty about resolving their feelings about leaving their past life, family, friends, children and grand-children. There are other members who has discussed this in various threads but I don't know where they are on the forum. Sorry.

I am still a wannbee but my immediate family is in FL so it the reverse situation for me.

Everyone has to resolve their feelings but they have to live their life for themselves and not other people. Spoken by someone who doesn't have a wife so what do I know?

I wish you well with this difficult situation.

BTW - A helpful suggestion - You might want to consider starting a new thread so your post will be easier to follow for anyone wanting to respond specifically to your question.
You would need to go to the "non-village discussion" forum or "new members" forum and select "New Thread". You can always cut and paste the body of your post to the new thread so it is easier. I hope this helps you.