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Originally Posted by RayinPenn

Early last week I was cruising the Web and I came accross the obituary of an old girlfriend's Mother. I was sorry to see it as she was always nice to me. I was shocked to read predecessed by her daughter 'Kathry...' I thought to myself that can be right! A quick search and I found her obit, she died on Aug 3rd of 2009. We were together for a couple of years in and after college when she tossed me on my ear and said I "wasnt the kind of person she wanted to marry" and a few undeserved, unkind words. (My guess slamming one book close) It took me forever to get over it. Many a night I woke up in a cold sweat. Many years passed then a couple of years back I sent a note to her mother just to see how Kathy was doing. I asked her to keep my inquiry our secret (of course she didnt). The Moms note said married 3 kids lives on LI... It helped.
Ive a great wife, 2 great kids and have been truly blessed more than anyone deserves.. Even though I hadnt spoken to her in 30 years since I read that obit I am struggling with that old "familiar pain". Am I an old fool? I really couldnt talk to anyone about this.

Originally Posted by Bogie Shooter

Does your wife read TOTV??

I think it's normal to feel sadness and pain when someone who has been a part of your life has passed away. It is like you lost a part of yourself.

If you are concerned and to be on the safe side, consider changing you screen name through the admin in case your wife knows or finds out your screen name and starts being interested in this forum. She will have the ability to look up all your posts.