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Old 12-25-2011, 10:53 PM
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Originally Posted by RayinPenn View Post
I'll post this because I have always been too embarrassed to speak or repeat it..the first time I went to see her at college (a 100 mile drive) She had the label from another guys underwear on her bedpost. I would have left but if I did and was caught she would have been tossed out of the dorm..it was a 20 ft drop the window i was close to risking it and breaking my leg. she convinced me it was noting but I was a young guy in love. in other words a dam fool. I or anyone else deserved better. In retrospect I should have jumped. If it quacks like a duck, smells like a duck..well you know. As I sit here 30 years later I think How cruel some people can be..thankfully just not me. May god forgive her. I know too much info but keeping it bottled up was why I had nightmares for so many years...apologies
A psychotherapist can probably help you resolve this dilemma --something other than a lost love going on here --just saying' IMHO