[skyguy79]

Originally Posted by Cassie325

This did not happen to me...but a trusted friend and Villager of 4 years. I could not believe my ears so I thought I would bring it to TOTV and ask for comments. Again this is second hand as I am telling it and was not present.

Just this past Thursday or Friday night my friend was at the square with her hubby and 8 other friends. A few of these people are smokers. The group always sits back by the drink shack where the ashtrays are...making one assume you are allowed to smoke near the ashtrays. As I said before they have lived here perm. for 4 years and know the rules pretty well.

Towards the end of the evening (around 8:30pm) most of the group had gone home. There were 4 of them left (one smoking). A couple (wife and husband around 52-55 yrs) came over to the small group and stood right next to them. After about 4 minutes the woman stated loudly that they were "invading" her air space.

The man smoking(former NY state Trooper) explained they were in the smoking section. That most of the square area was non-smoking and they would more than likely be happier over there....

The man in the couple grunted and started defending his lady friend. That she too had the right to stand or sit where ever she wanted....and should not have her air invaded.

Bottom line is the couples all went back and forth....the invaded air couple finally made some comment about the others not being from around here...no villagers....must be outsiders etc....

There was almost a brawl (so I am told).....

Personally, IMHO, to each his/her own. If someone wants to smoke that is their business...however it does seem that they followed the rules and laws of courtesy.

Why would this couple get so weird about it....just walk away or further down the row if you don't like it.

Just wondering what TOTVers thoughts are....please share.

Have you ever heard the term "horses patuti"? Well in my opinion that's exactly what the Trooper met up with in this case X two... and that comes from one who quit smoking nearly 33 years ago and has had asthmatic lung spasms triggered by being directly hit by a stream of smoke from another's cigarette!

Sounds like the HP's got their jollies by seeking out a target that they could make an issue with and not because of their right to intentionally invade the air space of the one who is smoking then expect them to adhere to their bullying antics by using the "their rights" card.
Anyway, you asked for thoughts and...