You have to make up your own mind as to what is best for you. Some people cannot bear to move away from grandchildren - others know the grandkids will be fine and will enjoy The Villages on visits.
If you have made friends here, I would say this is the place to be. You have to live life for yourself and not for others. One of my relatives was all set to sign on the dotted line but then talked to her step-daughter in Minnesota who said we will not see you anymore. Well, they don't see each other much now. The cousin sold her home in Iowa and moved to Minnesota - even though she cannot stand the cold. She is sorry now she did not move to The Villages.
Live life for yourself. Make up your mind as to what is most important to you but do ask yourself each day, "Am I happy?" Hopefully, the answer will always be YES.
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