Thanks to everyone and I shall remain in smile mode no matter what or who tries to get me down. Life is too short my friends to waste on the little things. I am lucky in so many ways.... As far as the dent in the car well it shall remain there to remind me that no matter who or what puts dents in my life I can smile and say "have a wonderful day" because I am on the other side of the grass this morning and for that I am thankful....