Happinow, my best advice is to not let the grumps on here disuede you from continuing to post on this forum. It is way too easy to be a cyber-bully, hiding behind the anonymity of a keyboard.
Early on in my TOTV experience I encouraged my wife to join TOTV. I thought it would be a great opportunity to learn about her new community. In one of her first posts she gave an unfavorable review of one of the country club restaurants (which coincidently had numerous bad reviews in prior threads) and she was jumped on by a number of the grumpy crowd. She was accused of being a former employee of the restaurant with an axe to grind, of lying about her experience, and of not having enough posts to reliably comment on her experience. Unfortunately, she was so hurt by the experience that she rarely ever looks at TOTV anymore. Many great people on TOTV jumped to her defense, but the damage was done.
Take a break if you need to, but please come back.
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Captain Jon
"Growing older but not up." J. Buffett
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Coral Gables, FL, Bahamas, Belize, Wilmington, NC, Bocas del Toro, Panama and finally The Villages
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