I didn't think VG was trying to be mean. In fact, I do think for the most part, she does try to be funny. I've seen her take a lot of heat on her threads. More then most of you would.
Honestly, I was/am having trouble connecting the dots with some of the threads. I don't want to see either one of them leave the forum and I feel this has been blown way out of proportion.
I too wonder why the comments came up as a thread and not in a PM. Honestly, I don't think if Happinow was trying to resolve it, this was the way to do it. If it had been at me, I'm not so sure I wouldn't have reacted a lot more then VG.
I also don't know who most of you are who are suddenly coming out of the woodwork on this topic. I'm seeing some pretty mean comments to both parties.... Posters who have only made a few posts making some pretty harsh posts. Just who are the trolls, because I'm getting confused?