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Originally Posted by graciegirl
I am going to post something that may be completely wrong, but very sincere.
I have met both of the women; Village Girl and Happinow. I have found many many MANY qualities to like in both of them.
I myself have written things to the effect, don't let others sway you or get you down....BUT
When others on this forum or anywhere have said you may have gone too far or really, REALLY, disagree with your stance or your behavior, there may well be an element of truth in what they say. We cannot reinvent ourselves or reach farther for their approval as I do sometimes, because I am way too easily hurt...
But...it doesn't hurt to entertain the thought that those who don't agree with you might be right. And it doesn't hurt to perhaps think about things for awhile. Most here are friends who once they like you will put up with a lot...and some are anonymous meanies. But most have the ability to listen with their heart and modify their stance a little.
Both Happinow and Village Girl have given us a lot of fun and have had many interesting things to say. No one can kid me, they both have good hearts.
Let's go back to how it was.
Please, neither of you leave us.
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a good example is when gracie and i disagreed vehemently over jeff ashton and his antics during the casey anthony proceeding. it became clear neither of us would relent our feelings publicly so she sent me a PM and we discussed our reasons privately and cleared the air. been forum friends ever since!!!