Maybe if the post had started with: If you were a young couple would you have children in todays world. So with that i can give you my childrens thought on children or not. The first is a doctor along with his wife. Both knew at a young age they DID not want children and have never wavered about that, and i have no problems with the choice. The second is a nurse and has three children all very much wanted and each is very special in everyway. The third child has his masters and works everyday in an autism center for low functioning children. Everyday is a challange for him but as he says its more of a challange for the parents. At open house I get so many hugs from people I have never meet but my son has so touched their lives. He will not be having his own children, but is going to save a girl from China so she may have a wonderful life. (Guess that changes my sign on to Asianfour) So if you look at three children all raised in the same home, all have different thoughts on: Would have children.
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