I never liked the Kool Aid-comments. That entrapment of people was Horrific! And this place is not a prison. There are many dynamic and intelligent people housed within the communities . As for leisureville. Well for my own reasons I am not ever going to read the book.
I competely agree with you about the kids growing up and moving on. I hear friends say "We are so happy your moving" I have heard, " Gasp your out of your mind going to Florida!" and we have heard " How can you leave those darling Grand Children?"
We feel that The Villages has offered us many more opportunities and positives than negatives. You can second guess yourself all day but until we live in TV and experience TV for several years I am not able to give accurate feedback.
I will say there is Hype after the intital visit and the a huge reality check when you make the final decision to move.
Our turn to experience starts in July. We have watched this site for years and have friends that have lived in TV for 14 years. We visited 5 years ago and every year after to see if it would implode? And yes we do worry somewhat if the place will be abondoned by the Family and go to H--
If we are comfortable and like it as we anticipate life will be what we hoped for. Not perfect but comfortable. And our kids as of now are more excited to come visit us in Fla than Syracuse NY.
If this turns into a uncomfortable atmosphere then the wagon wheels can roll to new adventures! As Gracie has said, " Once you down size and get rid of the " Stuff" it gets somewhat easier!
Good Post
should generate some stimulating conversations!
Regards Herv- CarGuys