Maybe he left because his shift was over????? When it's time to clock out, you have to do it. I'm sorry for you that someone wanting to talk to you is such an intrusion into your time. I think I have known (and did everything possible to avoid) people like you in my life. Do you really feel that if you decide to frequent a dining establishment that everyone there is your servant?? Since you are probably in the same age range that I am, I'm surprised that you are still hanging on to male chauvinism...I hoped that our generation had matured beyond that.