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Originally Posted by bestmickey
I also worried about Happinow's treatment. She definitely was bullied, as was I recently. I, however, fought back and the bullies appeared to back down. I recognize that not everyone is of the personality that will strike back when attacked. I find that unfortunate.
The goal of TOTV's bullies is to have the victim back down and withdraw from posting. Typically, TOTV bullies attack anyone who has anything negative to say about The Villages. While The Villages is a wonderful place and was a beautiful concept, it does have it's flaws. I do enjoy my times here (or anywhere), but desire full disclosure before deciding whether or not to relocate here. As others have done, I am doing a lot of homework/research before deciding where to relocate. Raising unpopular issues and asking questions will continue to bring out the bullies. It won't stop me from doing so. Even with its flaws, it may yet end up being the best of my choices. Time will tell, and I've got time to make my decision.
I do hope Happinow decides to come back to TOTV. Just because someone says something mean or nasty, it doesn't mean that others believe that view of you . Fight back. Don't withdraw. Don't be silenced! You don't have to make friends with these people. Ignore the ignorant. I also agree that the Administrator could be stronger in his statements against these bullies.
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I have noticed a pattern where one of the, ahem, "senior" posters will start a thread and when someone asked a question or disagrees, one of her "nice guys" will strike. Anyone notice the other day when we were told only to respond if we lived in TV? Hopefully if/when I decide to move to TV I'll have better things to do that sit in front of a PC all day.