1) Snopes does a LOT more than just 'googling stories'. In many cases, the Mikkelsons outline the steps they take to confirm/debunk stories.

2) It's not at odds to say that the girl was never in any danger - but Mitt and his partner DID NOT KNOW THAT at the time. As far as they were concerned, the girl was missing.

3) The point that others make is that Mitt is VERY charitable and giving - for people in HIS circle. His stated desire to cut services for others *appears* to show two sides of Mitt. If you're in his circle, he's an undying ally and friend. If not, well, you're on your own.