I would agree with Shcisamax that it seems that this thread, and other comparable threads, are not so much a discussion or sharing of ideas, but seem to be more a lecture series given by a few. There does not seem to be any room to consider another's viewpoint, and a very narrow margin of what is acceptable or not. IMHO this rigid, almost desparate need to live such a starkly controlled existence results in just that...a very starkly controlled existence. When someone expresses an appreciation for the joyful sharing of food with loved ones, even involving an occasional treat, they are almost reprimanded. It was suggested that to enjoy an occasional treat implied a lack of understanding! Really??? I think a lack of social interaction and joy in living can be just as "unbalanced" as the occasional treat.
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