sdavis - I am so happy that Jane was the voice of reason to all the naysayers on this post. My goodness how judgemental and righteous so many people are. No one knows what your family circumstances are and should not be judging. You asked a simple question and should receive a simple answer. Most kids can find each other within a 50 mile radius - it always amazes me with what ease they find their place. It probably isn't the ideal situation, but it wasn't the ideal situation when we moved our daughter during her senior year in high school because of a job promotion. Hey life happens and we all adjust one way or the other. I wish you the best of luck with whatever decision you make and can tell from your posts how much you love your son and have his best interest at heart. And speaking of heart - follow yours and trust your own instincts and all will be well.
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