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Originally Posted by shcisamax
I think that you may be framing the question in your mind in the wrong way. You have mentioned a couple times that you don't want to be defeated. That position takes your active choice out of the equation. Get rid of that thinking! This isn't a matter of being defeated. This is first and foremost really about where you are going to feel loved, feel connected, and feel you have a meaningful life...whatever that means to you. In that context, you will make a better decision. Good luck.
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Yes, I have mentioned that. I guess I want to be "successful" at caring for him. But, truthfully, who of us is above needing help and needing to be in a supportive environment. How could moving closer to children who want us there be "being defeated". Indeed that is negative thinking, when such a decision should be viewed as a positive one. Thank you for your insight. I do appreciate it.