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Originally Posted by shcisamax
Be careful of your definition of successful....You are already going through the thought process of what would be the best decision...i.e. successful outcome. That will guide your success. And remember, part of the equation is how you do.. This isn't about turning back the clock, this is about making the time as pleasant and rewarding as possible. I hope I haven't overstepped my bounds. Hugs to you during this decision. I know it is tough.
BTW: Senior Citizen has quite a bit of insight. Perhaps pm her for specific suggestions.
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No you have not overstepped your bounds at all. Yes, we do need a better quality of the time we have left together - definitely something better than an exhausted crying wife. That's no good for him or for me.
I am unbelieveably touched by the outpouring of help from all of you during this long night.