I also agree with what most others have said. Also lets say you give away your dream to help your son and two years later he gets a great job half way across the country. Will he 1) stay where he is because mom and dad moved back and he wants to be close to them. 2) follow his dream and too bad for you Only you can decide what is best for you. You only have one life to live and every day you spend not living your path is a waste. When children are young and dependant parents owe it to them to give up what the parent wants for the good of the kids. Once the kids grow up and can fend for themselves you don't owe them a thing. I think this is why birds build their nest high up in trees and shove real hard when pushing their young out of the nest
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